My review and outlook for the future of the Festival of Friends!

Check out what I think the future holds for Festival of Friends and for the Hamilton Event scene… and yes it’s a future! My comments and review are posted on wikiDOMO.com at the Festival of Friends Event profile page.

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Lets cut the gang at Festival of Friends a break!

My comments are posted on wikiDOMO at Festival of Friends event profile page.

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Why do so many people get engaged over the holidays?

With the January bridal wedding show season just a week away I got thinking… why do so many people get engaged between Christmas and New Years? Just monitor your friends Facebook statuses and I’m sure you’ll stumble upon at least one “friend” who just couldn’t wait to change their relationship status from “In a Relationship” to “Engaged” probably before they told their parents!

In my research for this blog I couldn’t find much on the topic. There is tons of info on how many people get married and when they get get married. But there is really no way to know when people get engaged because engaged people don’t have to fill anything out or sign a contract. What I did find out is the most popular times to pop the question. Here they are in order of popularity:

  1. Valentines Day – The big one… a bit obvious and in my opinion a little to predictable and lacking in originality
  2. Christmas Day – a great time because it saves you having to call all your family and friends to tell them. Makes a pretty good Christmas gift and you’re guaranteed to never forget when you got engaged..lol. Plus, how could she say no with all your family and friends there. Note: could be a challenge if you’re from different faiths.
  3. New Years – another pretty fun and unforgettable time to slide a ring on that special person. New Years Eve always has such a build up and a lot of times ends up being a lunch-bag let down. Popping the question could take it to a new level. Just be sure that you don’t party it up too much and mess everything up… that would make it memorable for all the wrong reasons.
  4. Anniversary of the first date – this is a good one and special because it is all about you and your spouse to be. Guys, make sure you have the right date. Don’t mix it up with her birthday or your ex’s dogs birthday… yikes!
  5. Girlfriends Birthday – this is still really popular. I don’t see it. Why would a girl want what was up till then her big day in the sun, be trumped by her engagement. Come on guys don’t be cheap and try to get away with not having to buy a birthday gift. You can be a little more creative and let her keep her birthday!
  6. Any day that works- so I guess all the other engagements fall under this category. Somehow over time couples having instinctively known when the time was right… well most of us… and did it whenever the moment was right!

This leads me back to my original question, why DO so many people get engaged over the holidays? There is probably no right or wrong answer to this question but I do have a theory. I’ve been producing wedding shows for over a decade and hands down the busiest shows are always in January. So my theory is that guys getting engaged over the holiday season and Valentines are just guys being typical guys. Think about it… your average guy is fairly practical, likes to take path of least resistance, is not overly creative, likes the team approach and is know to take any short-cut available to him!

So girls don’t take it personally or get all poopy if your guy doesn’t do something spectacular and creative. He’s just being a typical guy and loves you no less then those big show off guys who’ll fly you off to Paris on the anniversary of your first kiss, take you to the top of the Eiffel Tower, sing a song he wrote for you, get down on one knee and recite a poem he wrote professing his undying love and adoremation, then in sync with the preplanned fireworks ask for your hand in marriage…. blaa blaa blaa…. Think about all the money your guy saved by popping the question in the car on the way to his parents Christmas party…. that’s like a down payment on your first home!!!

If you got engaged over the holidays or think you will be by New Years day, be sure to come and check out the Hamilton-Halton Spring Wedding Show at Hamilton Convention Centre, January 8-9, 2011 and/or the Niagara Spring Wedding Show Quality Parkway Hotel, January 15-16, 20011. You can also visit www.TopWeddingShows.com for a list of all our bridal wedding shows. Also be sure to do your research and check out all the exhibitors profiles on www.wikiDOMO.com

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HECFI loses millions… my take!

Today in The Spec a story ran about Hamilton Entertainment and Convention Facilities Inc. (HECFI) needing $7.25 million in taxpayer money to cover its losses after a disastrous year.  I also listen to the Bill Kelly Show on 900 CHML this morning and heard CEO Duncan Gillespie say that the losses at HECFI are due to a combination of factors, like the lagging economy and a difficult year for concert venues. Which are all true… in part. What also worried me was some of the listener who called into the show thinking that the answers to this shortfall were very simple such as “sell it” or “fire them all” and some even suggesting that we don’t need such facilities.

This is my take on the situation. Hamilton is in the unique and difficult position of:

  1. Being an old and recovering industrial town
  2. Situated in the shadow of the country’s largest and most influential city and
  3. A victim of it’s own chronic self-doubt

 

Although I agree that privatization in most cases makes businesses run lender, meaner and more profitable the problems with HECFI are much more complicated.

If Hamilton was the “big” city we would already have a state-of-art Convention Facility, NHL team with hotels and amenities to match and people living and working downtown.

It’s not HECFI’s fault or missteps that have placed Hamilton in the position we find ourselves in today. Although, I’m sure HECFI could have done some or many things better and more efficiently over the years… we all can say that! Today’s problems are systemic and more the result of historic poor planning, resting on past successes and the lack of vision decades ago. We had some great people with big plans, ideas and hopes years ago but unfortunately not enough strong leadership and money to help steer them threw the past 30-40 years.

Today Hamilton is in competition with 100′s of other midsize cities for concerts, sporting events and conventions and we don’t have the facilities, amenities or money to properly compete. The answer isn’t privatization for the simple reason.. who in their right mind would buy such a decaying group of facilities? Sadly, if we didn’t have HECFI for the past 10 years or so we would probably have had nothing in the way of concerts, sporting events or convention facilities to be talking about today!

So what do we do? To start, we need strong leadership from all sectors to help form partnerships, collaborative thinking, creative refocusing and bundling of available inventory not only on a hyper-local level but as a region! (from my understanding this is starting to happen). Understand that concentrating social services in the city core is counterproductive to helping those in need and in attracting investment or people.

We also need all levels of local and regional government on the same page as local special interest groups and businesses.  It has worked in other cites and yes it is hard and many times painful. But, without a shared vision we will find ourselves in an even worst position a decade from now. Lets start a more prognostic dialog and stop complaining, finger pointing and beating ourselves up!

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Brides, Social Media and Bad Business…

After reading over a number of surveys collected from last weeks wedding show, I got thinking about the impact of social media on how couples plan their weddings and make buying decisions. All through the ages we have always relied heavily on word-of-mouth advertising from family, friends, even strangers on what, where and who to buy from. Today, we have all become a little more suspicious of marketers pitching what they think we need and can’t live without; while at the same time we have watched many advertisers jump into the social media frenzy. This has muddied the waters and caused many of us to start to question messages coming from our families, friends and specially strangers via social media networks like Facebook and Twitter. So what and who can a bride-to-be believe when trying to find the right products and services for their big day or anyone for that matter ? The easy answer is people you know and trust. But, “they” may not know of or had experience with products or services you need or want. So, traditionally many people have had to fall back on learning about new products and services from the advertising put out by businesses. However, more prevalent today is the reliance on ratings, reviews and comments from consumers. There has been a considerable growth in such sites and additions to existing sites over the past few years that allow consumers to have a voice. Sites such as YelpTripAdvisorProductwiki andwikiDOMO to name just a few offer consumers the ability to gather different levels of unbiased information to help them make a decision on what is best for them. What I also noticed from last weeks wedding show surveys was how much couples still rely on face-to-face meetings. What I mean is, when you are buying something specially if it is a big ticket item or something very important to you, you still want to know what other people think (which helps you narrow the field) but before you sign the contract you want to meet and chat with the service or product provider to ask more questions and validate your decision. This again validates that consumer shows like the wedding show last week and this weekends Niagara Autumn Wedding Show still have a very important roll in helping couples plan their weddings. The impact of social media has been more of a positive to businesses that conduct themselves above board and a wakeup call to businesses that aren’t very focused on customer service. In a nutshell, people research what they want (via the internet, word-of-mouth and traditional advertising), head to the wedding show to check out everyone in person, make their buying decision and then share there experiences via social media. Then the cycle repeats… moving forward as the information grows and gets better on the social media side of things, traditional advertising and crappy businesses will suffer the biggest blow and may at some point not even be in this equation!

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Getting married is… good!!

I once read that girls start planning their wedding around the age of 12. As a guy, I started planning my wedding when I got engaged. Even then, I wasn’t sure what to expect or even why I needed to get married.
Being married now for 8 years and being in the wedding business I guess I was a little cynical about the whole process. But I now appreciate the institution of marriage; specially now that I have a daughter. I feel that going through the process of marriage added a level of security and certainty to our family bond.
That being said, I think sometimes too much emphasis is on the sizzle and not the steak (hey… I’m a guy) when getting married. My company Beau Monde Productions produces four wedding shows a year and I have seen the array of wedding professionals bloom over the years with every service you could possible imagine now available and willing and able to be part of your wedding planning process. This can be a little overwhelming and confusing for couples and overshadow what is really important about the institution of marriage.  That being, making a commitment to each other that you will be there for each other through all the highs and lows that life throws at you …. specially once the honeymoon is over!
If you are heading to one of our upcoming wedding shows I urge you to do your homework and make the effort to research the companies, products and people you plan to use. Why? Because you owe it to yourselves to make sure you have no regrets and to learn to work together to understand how to compromise and rationalize what is important to both of you and your families.
A great tool for this of course is the internet. One site that can help is wikiDOMO.com. You can head to our website TopWeddingShows.com and click on the show, then click on the exhibitor list of the show you are going to and click on their wikiDOMO link to find out what other customers experiences have been using that companies products or services.
What’s also great is that you can give back by helping future couples by adding any valuable information you may have about the companies and their staff after you used them. Because wikiDOMO operates on an open platform meaning that anyone can add, edit, rate, review or leave a comment on any public profile, the information is unbiased!
If you are heading to 7th Annual Niagara Autumn Wedding Show which takes place Sunday October 3rd at the Quality Parkway Hotel & Convention Centre on Ontario St. in St. Catharines, go and have fun for sure… but also think of the wedding show as your ultimate wedding  guide to what is important to you and your family not only today but in the future.  I know that sounds a little deep but hey you’re laying a foundation and the better you plan your foundation and learn to work as a team the better your building a life together will be!
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The Hockey Fan Base in Ontario

Someone commented on how having a hockey team in Hamilton would not grow the fan base in Ontario on TSN report. I disagree a)the Leafs have probably alienated a number of former fans over the years who may get back into hockey if they had another local option b)a lot of kids and new Canadians don’t care about the Leafs or hockey in general (look at the growing rate of soccer registrations) but if there was a local team with better access for fans, they may become fans! Hamilton and a renovated Copps Coliseum makes the most sense!

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Is the city of Hamilton a viable market for an NHL franchise?

Just watch the TSN/The Globe & Mail third installment of “Why not Canada” reporting on “Is the city of Hamilton a viable market for an NHL franchise?” Report was fair enough but what is up with Hamilton’s final score of D+? Is it my imagination or does this not add up to a D+? My math puts Hamilton more in the B+ range. Check below and you try the math!

PROFESSOR O’REILLY’S SCORECARD for HAMILTON
Market Attractiveness
Economy: B
Demographics: B
Market Size: A+
Corporate Presence: B+
Overall Score for Market Attractiveness: A-

Franchise Viability
Arena and Location: C
Competition and Barriers to Entry: D-
Potential Owner (Jim Balsillie): A

Final Grade: D+

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Social Media Day

I checked out Social Media Day tonight in Hamilton at Vibewranglers Studio. Great crowd and some good speakers. What struck me most was the demographics. They ranged from early 20′s to early 60′s. The gap is really closing and I think that that will play a crucial roll in what social media will look like in the future. As the generational gap rears it’s ugly head as history shows, I’m certain major user adjustments will follow. Lets face it, nothing is more uncool then your parents or little sister listening to your music. So how long will it be before the facebooks, twitters, foursquares etc splinter off to try and cater to each generation of computer users and somehow add age-group blocking features to keep want-to-be’s out. We are just not meant to share the same things with our little sister, aunt, teacher and grandparents well remaining edgy and cool!

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What do you think of Toronto Police Services Handling the G20 Summit?

Toronto Police Services were in a no win postion. I think the media made more of it then it actually was and that under the circumstances the police officers showed a great degree of professionalism and restraint. Personally, after seeing what some of the protesters were doing I think I would have had a hard time holding back if I was in their position. Plus, it is not great strategy to give away all of your tactics, specially when the story is still developing.  Air your thoughts and comments on Toronto Police Services or more specifically Chief of Police Bill Blair’s handling of the G20 Summit at wikiDOMO.com

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